Firstly, i can’t believe your chinese is so ‘powerful’! Secondly, just look at the great results you’ve created on your own and with other people (based on what i’ve just read in your blog these 2-3 times)!! Recognise and acknowledge that. Focusing on the hurt that people have caused you sometimes means denying the love of someone who cares for you; if you accept that love then you would implicitly know that they want to see you happy and cease to dwell in suffering. Thirdly, which i also have an issue with, is trust and risking with someone new. But compare a frog and a bird, being a frog is safe but it’s also boring, whereas the bird gets to experience both the highs and lows!
I like your honesty and authenticity in this blog :D your personal thoughts and meaningful posts really make a positive impact, like the one on pakistani women. keep it up!
u write so well, totally love this post.
im like u, having trust issues as well. i can never trust someone again if he/she ever betrayed my trust.
it’s like a forever flawed relationship.
it’s true that if i never get over what has happened, i’ll be denying their love.
but for now, i just want to protect myself…
i think that’s a problem everyone will face ultimately.
especially in those who had trust issues in previous relationships before.
trust really need a lot of time to be built up.
try, dear pearlyn! :)
December 2nd, 2009 at 3:14 am
Firstly, i can’t believe your chinese is so ‘powerful’! Secondly, just look at the great results you’ve created on your own and with other people (based on what i’ve just read in your blog these 2-3 times)!! Recognise and acknowledge that. Focusing on the hurt that people have caused you sometimes means denying the love of someone who cares for you; if you accept that love then you would implicitly know that they want to see you happy and cease to dwell in suffering. Thirdly, which i also have an issue with, is trust and risking with someone new. But compare a frog and a bird, being a frog is safe but it’s also boring, whereas the bird gets to experience both the highs and lows!
I like your honesty and authenticity in this blog :D your personal thoughts and meaningful posts really make a positive impact, like the one on pakistani women. keep it up!
December 2nd, 2009 at 4:29 am
:) thank you leanne, for your comment.
you’re the only person who commented on this post anyway. haa.
but yeah, thanks again.
December 2nd, 2009 at 10:10 am
u write so well, totally love this post.
im like u, having trust issues as well. i can never trust someone again if he/she ever betrayed my trust.
it’s like a forever flawed relationship.
it’s true that if i never get over what has happened, i’ll be denying their love.
but for now, i just want to protect myself…
January 17th, 2010 at 5:28 am
i think that’s a problem everyone will face ultimately.
especially in those who had trust issues in previous relationships before.
trust really need a lot of time to be built up.
try, dear pearlyn! :)